What is it like to date a guy who drinks a lot?!

Question: What is it like to date a guy who drinks a lot!?
If a guy is drinking a lot, he is doing it because something in his life bothers him greatly and he doesn't want to deal with it!.

If you're asking this because you are considering dating a guy that drinks a lot, I would say!.!.!. just don't!.

If he can't get a hold of himself and can't deal with his own problems the right way, then he won't know how to treat you!.

also, it could lead to violence!.

The biggest thing though: who wants to love someone that isn't in their right mind most of the time!? How can they really love you back!?Www@FoodAQ@Com

If you are into being in a destructive, manipulative, abusive relationship it is great!.
You will always be second to the booze which is great and he may even bring home some tweekers once in a while!. So you will not have to worry about having nice things!. also if you always wanted to be a single mom, living in a trailer by the highway, this is the guy for you!
You may also get to laugh alot as your guy pisses himself, baths in his clothes with other men, drops your baby on her face and spends all the money in one night!.

Sounds like a real winner eh!?

Alcoholism is a disease of the unaccountable, they can blame their genetics on irresponsible, destructive behavior!. "Its not his fault" they will say, when that is the last thing to tell a person with addiction!.
It is his fault!. Get over it!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

At times it was boring, there times he made me cry, routines became draining and I had to still work and he did not realize how hurt I was so had to function harder!. Oh on the quick end note!. I had to watch my best friend die and be in real pain n the end from it!. But I was his best friend in the end and stayed with him through it all !. I did go to aa and aa for family members!. It did make a better and stronger person out of me!. Www@FoodAQ@Com

You can expect some or all of the following:

Calling in sick for him because he's too hung over to work!.
Making excuses to your friends and family for his behavior!.
Being embarassed by him in public situations where alcohol is served!.
(Examples: weddings, restaurants, picnics and holidays)
Blackouts where here's conscious but doesn't remember any of it the next day!.
Hitting on your girlfriends, your boss and your family members!.
Denial about his alcohol consumption!.
A DUI or two and car accidents, both major and minor!.
Secretly drinking!.
Loss of a job due to drinking, but honestly "it wasn't his fault!."

Honey, sober men may seem boring, but they are a safer bet in the long run!. If you have been affected by someone else's drinking, there's an Al-Anon meeting in your area!.



If you are just curious and possibly thinking about it, RUN the other way! Unless you are willing to go through years of abuse!.

Life is hard enough without having to deal with someone elses problems and the problems that will definitely arise!. Nothing good can come of it!. The drinking will ruin your life, as well as others that this guy comes in contact with!. And, don't think that you can change him!. Leave that to the professionals!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

it could be violent and it could ruin a relationship!.!.!.!.theres nothing worse than dating a guy whos drunk all the time!. But i guess it all depends on the personWww@FoodAQ@Com

I don't date guys!.
But an ex-girlfriend of mine occasionally would drink too much and that wasn't fun!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

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