I am 21 years old and I hate to party. and I hate to drink alcohol and beer smth like that. ?!

Question: I am 21 years old and I hate to party!. and I hate to drink alcohol and beer smth like that!. !?
Sometimes I feel like I'm sort of different from other people!.
All of my friends really like to go to night club and have some drink!.
Whenever they go out they call me to go with them, but I hate it!.
that's why most of my friends call me "Weirdo"
what should I do!?
am I really weirdo!?Www@FoodAQ@Com

Your not a weirdo, you are yourself!.!.

I also don't enjoy nightclubs and parties, I would rather go somewhere peaceful and pleasant!. If i must go to a party i just go for the food

also I was very antisocial, not so much now but i still prefer to relax and do my own thingWww@FoodAQ@Com

I'm the same way!. I can't stand the taste or smell of alcohol!. I didn't even drink on my 21st birthday except for one tiny margarita!.

There's nothing wrong with it!. There are plenty of ways to have fun without getting drunk, most of them less harmful and don't involve doing things you regret because you can't control yourself!.

If you really want to drink though you can always try the really girly ones!. Like I hate alcohol, but Smirnoff Ice is really good, and so are some wine coolers!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Alcohol is gross in general it smells awful, tastes even worse, and does no good for anyone!. You are just not interested in it and come across much more mature than your friends!. You and I are in the same boat and I just say owell i don't want to go!. Your friends will think you are a stick in the mud, but find something you like to do without them that you can do at night or start expanding your friend group you know!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

No you are not a weirdo you are quite normal actually!. You just have different interest then others and that is ok!. I do not always have the same interests as my friends, family or even strangers!. Just embrace your interests and have fun with your friends when you do spend time together!. Make the most of life :)Www@FoodAQ@Com

look as long as you have a job,Money or even a car you don't have to blow your money on getting drunk every week Im the same age and I don't go out much either but im happy and don't care if someone Thinks its weird!.But their opinion that your friends have is not true they are not the spokesperson for Society!.As long as your happy with yourself thats all that should matter!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

It's your decision!. Don't feel as though you "have" to drink just because now you can do so legally!. If you don't want, you don't want to!.
I personally don't think of you any differently if only based on this, if anything else I congratulate you on your remaining sober!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

i had my son when i was 19 so i couldnt go out and party when i turned 21 because i had to stay home and take care of my son!. and to this day i never really go out clubbing!. go do something else with your friends!. go out to dinner or a movie go to the beach or park!. go to the mall or churchWww@FoodAQ@Com

Ignore them!. Just be yourself that's most important!.
Go out to eat more, then rather just going to a bar and going to a party!. Go to the mall and hang out, instead of these stereotypical things that people expect you to do!. ~Www@FoodAQ@Com

buy a console (preferably ps3 or wii) and get rock band set!. and have a party at your house!.

i went drinking with a few of my friends, and they had guitar hero!. I went home drinking just 1 beer!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Don't worry!

I'm 16 and I don't like the taste of alcohol!.

But parties are fun, so guess you're just a mellow, quiet person!!!Www@FoodAQ@Com

Your not weird, you just don't like drinking and (I'm guessing) load places!.
There probably things ye do that some other friend doesn't enjoy doing!. Everyone is different, enjoys different thingsWww@FoodAQ@Com

Some people enjoy drinking, others don't!. Most of the drinks out there I don't like much but I would still probably hang out with friends at a club if there wasn't a min!. drink setup!.!.!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

get new friends who are interested in the same things as you!. you're not weird just because you don't want to go drinking all the time!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

Responsible might be a better word!. If your friends can't accept you then find better ones!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

I guess that's good!.
But if it wasn't for the booze I wouldn't have any memories from when I was 21!. I'm 36 now!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

no youre not a weirdo it does get boringWww@FoodAQ@Com

no, its just that you're not a partier &/or a follower!.Www@FoodAQ@Com

try weed!. lol!.
nahh, your'e not wierdo!. you're you!
dont do stuff if its not fun for you!.

im with you mate i do not like to go out at all!. or drink!. i think i have a phobia of getting drunk or something xDWww@FoodAQ@Com

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